Remembering the First Thanksgiving with Gratitude

 

Deidra Bowling-Meade

The Ashland Beacon

 

   The Peanuts character Charlie Brown gives us food for thought: “What if today, we were just grateful for everything?” We often take what we have for granted, such as our home, food, health, friends and family.  Thanksgiving is a time to reflect on our many blessings.  Holy Family School’s kindergarten class taught by Brandi Cumpton has been learning about giving thanks, as well as experiencing the first Thanksgiving.  It’s been an experience the students will never forget.   

   Cumpton first reads a fiction book from the Magic Tree House series titled, Thanksgiving on Thursday by Mary Pope Osborne, to launch the unit.   The two main characters of the book, Jack and Annie, are whisked back to 1621 on the first Thanksgiving Day. The Pilgrims ask them to help get things ready. But whether it's cooking or clamming, Jack and Annie don't know how to do anything the Pilgrim way. Nonfiction texts, such as Giving Thanks: The 1621 Harvest Feast by Kate Waters and Pilgrims A Nonfiction Companion to Thanksgiving on Thursday by Mary Pope Osborne and Natalie Pope Boyce are also included to provide extension of understanding. These resources helped give an in-depth picture of what life was like for the early settlers.  The students were then given the opportunity to experience life as a Pilgrim as they prepared a Thanksgiving feast celebration. 

   Cumpton described the celebration, “We try to recreate the Pilgrim tradition and feast as best we can with adult supervision.  Students prepare and cook the food, serve one another, and clean afterwards.  The students sit on the floor to eat like the Pilgrim kids had to during that time.  They used seashells to eat their food.  Foods included items we know they had at the First Thanksgiving:  deer meat, potatoes, carrots, corn on the cob, nuts, berries and water.”  Kindergarten student, Mack Meade, smiled with excitement as he placed the deer meat in the pot to cook.  Meade exclaimed, “It was raw and bloody! It was cool to cook and try to eat it.  I ate five bites of a deer leg; it was good!”  

   The students also shucked corn, peeled potatoes, cut carrots and washed fruit.  Kindergartener Waylon Haywood commented, “I’m thankful I don’t have to work as hard as the Pilgrim kids!”  Cumpton enjoys watching the students work most of all because “it paints a better picture of how hard the pilgrim children worked and how much involvement they had with the daily responsibilities.”  The students learn to be grateful for their daily blessings.  

   Allison Salem said she was thankful for the feast food and her cousins.  Maria Peacock stated she was thankful for her family and house.  Callie Bowling shared, “I’m thankful for my toys because the Pilgrim kids didn’t have any on the boat.”   

   Cumpton has shared the Thanksgiving feast with her students for 10 years.  Several parents have discussed how valuable the experience is for their children.  Kristin Haywood is a 4th grade teacher at Holy Family and mother of Waylon Haywood.  Haywood teased, “I was dying to try some deer meat, but the boys ate it all!  It smelled delicious!”  Haywood continued, “I was happy to hear that the students in kindergarten were already learning about and getting to re-create some of the things they learned about all week leading up to the feast.  Waylon would tell me facts daily that he had learned about the First Thanksgiving.  He quickly realized it’s not as simple as it is at home.  He didn’t want to live like a pilgrim but definitely loved to cook and eat like one!”  

   Kelly Marcum, who teaches religion and also works with the kindergarten class, enjoys the Thanksgiving feast the most.  Marcum proclaimed, “It’s my favorite event of the year!  I learn something new every year.”  The hands-on experience for the students puts everything into perspective and is a bonding experience they will always remember with gratitude.

Supporting Those Who Support Us: Shop Small Business Saturday Nov. 26

 

Sasha Bush

The Ashland Beacon

 

   With Christmas right around the corner, holiday shopping is in full swing. Many local businesses are gearing up for Black Friday sales in anticipation of what is easily known as the biggest shopping day of the year. What you may not realize is that there is another shopping day that is equally, if not more important than Black Friday. Small Business Saturday kicks off on November 26, the Saturday after Thanksgiving. Small Business Saturday is a day set aside for locally owned small businesses to step into the spotlight. Most small businesses will be offering some type of special sale or promotion at this time. So, you might be asking yourself… “why do I need to support small businesses?” The answer is simple… because they support you! 

   Small businesses are often the ones that donate to your local charities, sports teams, and other causes. Just take a look around the next time my are at a ballfield or gym, and you will notice all the banners and signs up that has donated hard earned money to support our kids dreams. That’s locally owned small businesses supporting their community. Without the generosity of these locally owned businesses many of our youth’s programs, fundraisers, and sports would be doomed to fail. If these small business owners are willing to help support the dreams or our children, then we should be willing to support their dreams as well. 

   Without locally owned small businesses, a town would just be a neighborhood. It is the “mom and pop” shops that are truly the backbone of our communities. Local stores employ local people, who then spend money shopping locally, which in turn helps to create a thriving economy for the entire community. Why wouldn’t you want to support the small businesses around you? You don’t see big corporations chomping at the bit to sponsor your son or daughters’ baseball team or softball team or donate a portion of proceeds from the day to your school, or help those in need during their darkest of days. 

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This Saturday, November 26, is your chance to help support those who support you by shopping local. Just check out this list of amazing deals, promotions, and vendor fairs from just a few of the locally owned shops/individuals that we all know and love.  

   Local Mercantile, located at 2030 29th Street, has some of the cutest clothing around and if shoes are your thing then you definitely don’t want to miss out on shopping at this unique boutique. They will be open from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. on Friday and Saturday. Door busters will be going on throughout the day, certain purchases will be eligible for giveaways, and for every $50 gift card purchased you will get a free $10 gift card. The Trinity Boutique will also be set up at Local Mercantile with its surprise sales and promotions.

   Melanie’s Bowtique is the place to be for the cutest children’s clothes around. They will be offering a free holiday reusable tote bag to the first 30 shoppers, and for every $50 spent before tax you will get $10 off your purchase. Melanie’s Bowtique is located at 1536 Winchester Avenue, Suite 2 inside the historic Camayo Arcade. Bluegrass Collectables and Amy’s Art will also be set up at the Camayo Arcade on Small Business Saturday. 

   Pretty and Poised, located at 1601 Winchester Avenue, will be open from 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. and will be offering door prizes and hourly giveaways throughout the day. Get 30% off sweaters, jackets, and dresses from 10 a.m.-5 p.m. and draw for 20%-40% off your purchase. The first 10 people will receive a free gift with purchase plus the first 30 people will receive Chery’s cookies.

   Stop in at 1505 Winchester Avenue to find Christian Alexander Home for some great deals on some of the most gorgeous home items around. Get in there from 11 a.m. – noon you can get 30% off your purchase, from noon – 2 p.m. you can get 25% off your purchases, and then from 2 p.m. – 4 p.m. you can get 20% off your purchases. Don’t forget to hop on over to Merle Norman and check out the amazing deals that they will be offering.

   Holly B’s Jewelry & Gifts, located at 121 16th Street, offers custom made items perfect for those gifts that you want to have a more personal touch. You can also find some of the cutest jewelry around. Holly B’s will be offering 20% off your entire purchase during their Shop Small Business Saturday event. 

   The Lemon Frog Boutique is located above the Greenup Avenue Giovanni’s and offers a wide variety of high quality, unique, and affordable boutique clothing in sizes XS-5X. The Lemon Frog will be offering special promotions and giveaways throughout the day and will feature sales all throughout the store with up to 70% off. In addition to amazing prices the Lemon Frog Boutique will also be applying bonus amounts to all gift card purchases.

   If vendor fairs are your thing, then you have plenty of opportunities and places to visit on Saturday.  The Cinema at Camp Landing will be hosting a Small Business Saturday Craft and Vendor Fair featuring some of the areas most popular vendors. This event will be from 2 p.m. – 6 p.m. Door prizes and giveaways will be happening all throughout the day, gift card specials will be available for some of the most popular stores, and if you have your little ones with you, they can stop by and partake in some fun crafting time with Mrs. Claus. 

   The Edge Business Center, located at 1100 Our Lady’s Way in Ashland, will be hosting its 2022 Shop Local Holiday Market. This festive holiday event will run from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. and will feature more than 60 local vendors for you to shop from. You are sure to find something for everyone on your list. Admission to this event will be $5. 

   No matter what your needs and wants are, chances are you will find the perfect gift this holiday season when you shop local.

The Tale of Two Turkeys That Nearly Killed Us All

 

Sasha Bush

The Ashland Beacon

 

   Thanksgiving is such a wonderful holiday. It is a time for us to gather with our families and reflect on what we are most thankful for. In a perfect world Thanksgiving dinner would go off without a hitch and everything would turn out just right. But we don’t live in a perfect world and if something is going to go wrong, it tends to happen when we really don’t want it to. But, that’s what makes life such a wonderful and intriguing experience. It is the times that things seem to go awry that are often the times that stand out in our memories the most. Let’s face it: when we are getting the entire family together there is bound to be something hilarious happen. For my family this seemed to be a normal occurrence year after year. There was always some dramatic event that would leave us all in laughter.  However, one particular Thanksgiving Day will forever stand out in my mind. 

   When I was around five years old, I remember watching my grandmother frantically run around the kitchen preparing our annual Thanksgiving feast. I was always trying to help out, but most of the time I would just be in the way. However, that never stopped my grandmother from trying to include me… even if that meant telling me that she needed me to go cook my own Thanksgiving feast, so she didn’t have to cook so much. So, that’s exactly what I did. I went to my “kitchen” in my bedroom and began preparing my own dinner. Then it hit me! What if I could make both dinners so much better by combining them?

   I quickly grabbed my plastic toy turkey, fake stuffing, and a fake ear of corn and ran to my grandmother’s kitchen. While she wasn’t looking, I decided that the best way for me to accomplish this goal of combining our dinners was to stuff my “food” into the actual turkey. So that’s what I did. I shoved all three as far back into the turkey as I possibly could. Shortly after my grandmother stuffed the turkey with her famous homemade stuffing and popped it into the oven. I was so proud of myself because I just knew that this was going to be the most unforgettable Thanksgiving Day dinner ever. I mean, how could it not be? Here you had my perfectly prepared plastic dishes added to my grandmother’s already perfect stuffing. I just knew it had to be a winning combination. Hours passed and it felt like days. Finally, the time had come to set the table. We all took our places around the tables. It was customary for the adults to sit at the big table and the children would sit at their own table off to the side. 

   Shortly after grace had been said, it wasn’t too long before everyone discovered my “added” ingredients. As the stuffing was being distributed it was mixed with hardened stringy colors of brown, yellow and orange. It also had a smell coming from it that was quite awful and one that I will never forget.  I was so excited to let everyone know that I was the reason the stuffing looked so “good” this year. However, that excitement was short lived once my grandmother along with everyone else at the table deemed our beloved turkey in-edible. I was so upset that they didn’t share in my excitement. My only response to them was, “how rude!” To add insult to injury, it was later discovered that one of my aunts’ earrings had fallen off into the mashed potatoes during the preparation stage. It was unfortunate that one of my cousins who had a loose tooth was the one that found it. But on the bright side, he did get a visit from the tooth fairy that night.

   That was one of my most favorite Thanksgiving memories I had as a child. It was one of the few times that we were all together. After getting married and having kids of my own, I began cooking my own dinner for my family. It was clear after our first Thanksgiving that I was keeping the tradition of hilarious holiday mishaps alive. The first turkey I ever cooked, much like my grandmothers, turned out to be in-edible. Of course just like that Thanksgiving day when I was five, the extent of my mishaps wasn’t discovered until the table had been set and we began to serve the food. 

   You see… in the middle of preparing my mashed potatoes I realized that I had forgotten to buy milk and we didn’t have any in the fridge or any cream I could substitute it with. Well, one of my “bright ideas” came to mind and I decided that since I had all this baby formula on hand that I could just use that in place of the milk. So I quickly went to work mixing in my “milk,” butter, salt and pepper. About the time that I had finished that, the oven bell went off. The turkey was done! I began setting the table. Once I uncovered the turkey I  realized it had an absolutely disgusting smell coming from it. It didn’t take long for us to find out why.

   I had unknowingly left everything inside the turkey. Yup… that’s right! I left the bag of giblets, heart, liver, gizzard and neck inside the turkey. The bag that held the everything had melted and fused to the turkey and produced the most horrid of smells.  Needless to say, that turkey was quickly trashed. Thankfully I had cooked a small ham and we had all the other great side dishes, which included my mashed potatoes. I was the first person to take a bite of the mashed potatoes prepared with Similac baby formula. I was also the last because the potatoes quickly joined the turkey in the trash can. 

   So here I am with a turkey that was trashed and now the mash potatoes that could not be eaten. Again, to add insult to injury, I then discovered that the ham had not cooked all the way through and was cold in the middle. At this point I was done. I was devastated. All the sudden my husband started laughing hysterically. It was at that point that I realized that even though our first Thanksgiving seemed to be ruined in my mind, it would in fact be a day that we would talk about for years to come. I may have not created the best Thanksgiving Day feast on that day but what I did create was far more substantial. I created memories that I will cherish for a lifetime. 

Attitude for Gratitude

Sasha Bush

The Ashland Beacon

 

   Thanksgiving comes but once a year and brings with it a time of thankfulness and celebration. It is a time that provides us with ample opportunity to reflect on the many blessings that have been bestowed upon us and is a time that families gather at one another’s homes in anticipation of the great feast that is carefully prepared with precision and love.  Thanksgiving is more than just showing gratitude for the things that you have been given. It is also about showing gratitude for the things that you didn’t have to go through… the things that you were spared from. It’s all too easy for us to take for granted the little things in life. 

   As adults, we tend to focus on the bigger picture. The problem with that is that by focusing on the bigger picture we miss out on the little things that helped to paint that picture. It’s the little things that we often take for granted and that can in fact be the most meaningful. Children tend to look at the world with a different set of eyes than most adults do. Children seem to have the innate ability to see and hear everything that goes on around them. The eyes and ears of a child are something quite astonishing.  The beauty in this is that they are able to enjoy things more than we do as adults, because they aren’t focusing on the endgame… they are just living in the now and enjoying every minute of it. I had the opportunity to ask several children what it is that they are most thankful for. Here is what they had to say…

  “I’m thankful for my mommy and daddy and my room with all my ponies and the house that my ponies live in.” – Bella Age: 5

  “My blankets because they are soft and keep me warm. My Mamaw made them for me and my brother and that makes them special.”- Tyler Age: 9

  “I am most thankful for my mom. She is my best friend and is always there for anything I need, and she always forgives me if I do something bad.”- Aleaha Age: 12

  “I am thankful for the many opportunities that I have been given to try  and learn new things.”- Brandon Age:16 

  “My mommy. I love my mommy!”- Hadley Age: 3

  “I am thankful for the food that God gives us, the house that we have, my parents, and my sister.”- Eli Age:9

  “My family, my cats, and my home.”- Kylee Age: 6

  “I’m thankful for Christmas! Oh… and my mommy and daddy.”- Brantley Age: 5

  “My VR game because I got it on a special day and my switch.”- Grayson Age: 8

  “Family, friends, and Jesus!”- Landon Age: 7

 

   These children clearly have a lot to be thankful for. We all do! We could all take a page from their book of life and start practicing an “attitude for gratitude” not just on Thanksgiving, but every day. For everyday is a gift from God and that itself is something to be thankful for. William Faulkner, once said, “Gratitude is a quality similar to electricity: It must be produced and discharged and used up in order to exist at all.” So go out and share your gratitude with others because you never know what they might share with you in return.

Ashland, Kentucky: My Merry and Bright Hometown

Sasha Bush

The Ashland Beacon

 

The lights have been hung from the streetlights with care.

The bell ringers are out ringing with style and flair.

Holiday music can be heard throughout the stores,

and children everywhere are willingly doing their chores!

A walk through the park is now merry and bright,

And the festival of tress is just with in sight.

It’s Christmas! It’s Christmas! It’s finally here!

A time to be merry. A time to spread cheer.

Ashland Kentucky is merry and bright

A trip downtown can be such a delight

 

   The trees are up, the lights are strung, and that Christmas spirit is spreading like wildfire. If the Christmas spirit hasn’t hit you just yet… that’s okay! You just haven’t experienced what this creative little town has to offer during this festive time of year. You don’t have to go far to find that good ole’ Christmas spirt. Christmas is all around us here in Ashland. Just take a drive down Winchester Avenue one night and you will see the beautiful display of lights carefully hanging from street lights as you pass by. If lights are what gets you in that festive mood then you want to drive a little further and take trip to Central Park. There you can find the most impressive light display anywhere in the tristate. 

   The Winter Wonderland of Lights Festival (WWOL) is a five-week celebration of the most wonderful time of the year. Sixty magical holiday light displays, containing over 800,000 lights, spans across Central Park’s  52-acres of pure majestic beauty. The WWOL has been a well-loved tradition of Ashland for many years. People from all-around the Tri-State make the drive to view this beautiful display of holiday cheer set the park ablaze. This display is free-for-all to enjoy. The WWOL, held its opening night on Monday, Nov. 14, 2022. The light display will be available until Jan. 1, 2023. The lights turn on at dusk and burn bright until 10 p.m. Sunday-Thursday and until 11 p.m. Friday and Saturday. 

   During the months of November and December you can also catch a ride on the Winter Wonderland Express Train and tour the beautiful light display in the most festive of ways. The train departs at Central Park and 22nd Street. Train rides will be available through the 18-20 of November and the 2-4, 9-11 and 16-20 during the month of December. Rides are offered from 6 p.m. – 9 p.m. and ticket costs will be $4 per person. You can also take your own picture with Santa at the Central Park Log House during the times that the train rides are offered. What’s Christmas without a parade? No worries… Ashland’s got that covered too. The annual Christmas Parade will be held Tuesday, November 22 at 7 p.m. downtown Ashland. This year’s theme will be “Christmas Around the World” with Grand Marshal, Mark Maynard at the helms.

   Now, you can’t have Christmas without a Christmas tree! What’s better than one Christmas tree? Well that’s an easy one… how about a historic theater full of them? The Paramount Art’s Center kicked off it’s 38th Annual Festival of Trees and Trains on November 18. This 10-day event runs through Nov. 27 and can be enjoyed Monday-Saturday from 12 to 8 p.m.; Sunday from 12 to 5 p.m. and will also be available on Thanksgiving Day from 4 to 8 p.m. Tickets can be purchased at the Paramount Arts Center. Admission is $7 for adults, $6 for seniors and $4 for children. All proceeds of this annual holiday fundraiser supports the education department of the historic Paramount Arts Center right here in Ashland. 

   The Festival of Trees and Trains offers a huge display of creatively decorated trees, bowling pins, carvings, trains and so much more. Everything you see on display has been made possible by local businesses, schools, clubs, teams and extremely talented Christmas loving individuals right here in your hometown. The Festival of Trees and Trains isn’t just about what you see. This event is all about spreading that holiday cheer all-around and offers a wide variety of holiday themed activities. During the duration of the Festival of Trees and Trains you will experience visits from Santa, photos with popular characters, performances by local choirs, bands and entertainers, great food and tons of Christmas Spirit.

   So, if Christmas spirit is what you are looking for, then you look no further than right here in your own merry and bright hometown of Ashland.